YOU are not imagining it.
YOU are not depressed.
YOU are not too young.
YOU are not falling apart.
YOU are probably in perimenopause.
The chances are you are trying to figure this out by yourself while dealing with all of the other things adulting brings.
The memory slips that make you doubt everything.
The rage that can come out of nowhere.
The sleep that used to come that now just doesn't.
The intimacy that just feels different.
All while you're smiling through your day, pretending everything is fine.
You are not alone in this though it can often feel lonely. I see you. I've been right there next to you. So have most of your friends.
What you're feeling matters and we need to start talking. It's real, it's common, and it's happening to millions of us right now.
Nearly 40% of women in perimenopause felt misdiagnosed when they finally sought help. Less than half say their doctor ever started the conversation. More than 80% never seek care at all.
The most common experiences?
When loneliness hits during this time, the risk of feeling like your brain is slipping can increase up to eightfold.
Sources: Bonafide State of Menopause Survey, 2024; AARP/National Poll on Healthy Aging; Lisa Health National Survey; peer-reviewed longitudinal studies on social isolation and cognitive decline
This isn't just you. This is the same storm, different boats, no map. Shit, no oar.
Nobody is asking you if you are ok. And if they did, you wouldn't know what to say.
Now you muster the energy to go to the doctor or you're just desperate enough. Either way, you feel insane and you probably don't know what to ask. The doctor gets 15 minutes and most sadly have little training on this. So we were left wondering if we were depressed, had early onset dementia, or wondering where our libido went.
The system knew.
It simply didn't tell us.
Now you know and knowing is the beginning of everything.
Your symptoms have patterns. Your experiences can be tracked and in 30 days, voila! You can walk into your next appointment with a clear, doctor recognized Menopause Rating Scale (MRS) report instead of vague complaints. YOU will have clarity.
You are no longer guessing. You are doing. This is major. Air hug.
Know someone going through it? Send her here.
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